What I Learned in 2012

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1) You have to pick your company very carefully. Culture is everything. Don’t pick management teams who are “too nice” or too mean.

2) Know when you’re ready for the next step in your career. Don’t waste your time treading water.

3) Demand recognition for your efforts.

4) Be strategic in your relationship building. Treat senior team members as mentors, your coworkers as allies, and junior team members as mentees.


^^^ A draft I lasted edited December 31, 2012 at 3:05pm. Very entertaining to look back on my apparent mentality at that time, as I publish this unfinished post at 5:52pm on December 10, 2017.

Mornings in Central Park

On March 1st, it will be exactly 5 months since I abruptly packed up my belongings in San Francisco and moved to the Big Apple. (It will also be my birthday, but more on that later.) Settling into my new surroundings has been exciting and adventurous, and re-acclimating to the city culture that I was raised in has been an interesting experience. Oh, and remembering what “cold” is — that’s been rather interesting as well!

On my morning walk to work today, it suddenly occurred to me — it won’t always be cold in New York. Obvious enough, right? Well, after having lived in California for the past six years, I’ve grown accustomed to having only one season: perpetual summer. When I moved to NYC, I arrived with the expectation of snow and sleet and rain, and although it’s actually been a lovely winter this year (apparently), it’s still been between 20 – 40 degrees every day. But not this morning.

I got a bit of a late start today (probably because I was laughing my ass off at the Comic Strip until about midnight last night). I showered, poured a cup of French drip, and put on an episode of the Simpsons to listen to as I got ready (fun fact: it was “Bart of Darkness” — such a classic). At 8:30am (about an hour later than usual), I wrapped my scarf, grabbed my leather gloves and headed out for the 3.2 mile walk to my office in Bryant Park. As I stepped out of my building, it became immediately clear that I would NOT need my gloves and scarf this morning. As I unwrapped myself from my winter essentials, I watched the sun glittering on the East River for a minute, soaking in the warm sun rays and just imagining how amazing my walk will be in a month or so, when it’s consistently lovely.

Looking forward to saying good-bye to winter wear!

When I first started walking to work back in November, I would try to go as far down 1st avenue as I could, because generally speaking, the further “in” on Manhattan you go, the busier and more crowded it gets. I’d usually get to the 59th street skycars and then start zig-zagging over to 5th ave. There’s actually a concept called “Manhattan Geometry,” because Manhattan is the only place in the world where you will walk exactly the same amount of mileage regardless of route. For instance, I will always walk exactly 3.2 miles to work no matter which streets or avenues I take. So I used to walk with the lights, figuring it was quickest. Well, that may be true, but about as month ago, I realized that I could walk through Central Park every morning if I just went straight over on 79th. Since that revelation, my morning walk has become indispensable. And now that it’s getting warmer, I have only more to look forward to!

Central Park in the morning light

I feel so grateful that I can walk to work in such a beautiful park in such an amazing city. And although I get urges to live in pretty much every neighborhood I visit here, I’m starting to think I’ll never be able to live downtown, because that will mean I won’t be able to enjoy Central Park as often! I’m looking forward to spring (and then summer!) with renewed excitement!

Who Wants a BlackBerry Anyway?

After many years of being a loyal BlackBerry user and evangelist, I am officially leaving the RIM platform for greener pastures. The reason? Because BlackBerry has simply let me down one too many times. Thus far, I’ve been the most patient and forgiving user a product could hope for — I could put up with the lack of quality apps in their app store, the horrendous — and quite frankly, embarrassing — browsing experience, and the inaccurate scrollpad, but the rapid decline in both hardware and software is absolutely inexcusable.

Now I just have to decide — am I an Android girl, or an iPhone sell-out lady?

Stephanie’s blog launch!

Welcome to the inaugural posting of Stephanie’s blog! I will focus most posts around business and marketing topics, as well as document important events in my personal life, including my extensive travels. Think of it as an autobiography illuminated by posts following my personal interests: business, marketing, high-technology, and international relations.